Having struggles is part of being human. Here we work on removing obstacles that stop us from living the life we want.
Types of services:
Individual Therapy
Supervision
Telephone sessions
Speaking engagements
Workshops
Collaboration on creative or Non Profit ventures
methodologies:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Grief Therapy
Mindfulness and Self Compassion Therapy
Behavioral Activation
Career Counseling
Personal Development Coaching
EXAMPLES of life challenges:
Adjustment to life events and changes
Assertiveness
Burn out
Career changes
Gender affirmation
Conflict management
Cultural/ethnicity/spiritual issues
Chronic mood difficulties
Excessive worry/generalised anxiety
Family of origin issues
Grief, loss and bereavement
Marital & relationship issues
Obsessions and compulsive behaviors
Panic attacks
Parenting challenges
Perfectionism
Self-confidence and self-criticism
Social anxiety
Specific fears and phobias
Stress management
What to expect
No client or problem is the same. Together, we will explore your life challenges and find solutions. Below is a general outline of some focus areas many clients go through
understand how life experiences (in childhood and/or adulthood) caused scars.
This is not a blaming process and we certainly can't 'solve' the past. We have to work to find the grace in our hearts to accept what we cannot change. But understanding the origins help us understand how problematic patterns develop.
work out how these scars manifest into 'stuck' points in adult life.
To order to create relief from emotional pain, we can engage in numbing strategies e.g. excessive drugs and alcohol, overwork, overexercise, overexertion or avoidance of emotions. Some people may develop a lack of self worth and give up on relationships, career or hopes for the future.
learn skills to challenge these stuck points.
The therapist is there with patience and kindness to walk alongside you and be there to celebrate your steps.
keep revisiting the stuck points and learn more skills.
We practice new skills that lead to seeing new blind spots and obstacles. So we reflect and make more changes.
identify values and link them to direct behavioral goals.
Addressing 'unwellness' isn't enough. After working on stuck points, this is the perfect time to identify your values and work toward a meaningful life.
develop relapse prevention skills.
We need to be mindful of trigger points, special anniversaries or occasions, key trigger emotions and behavioral patterns. We need to develop relapse prevention plans.
The idea of therapy isn't to get you hooked for life. The goal of learning skills and developing awareness is to allow these changes to be sustainable.
However, when we are under stress and going through major life changes, we need additional support - so as you improve in your life functioning, appointments are flexible and based on YOUR needs and resources.